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Field notes

Practical observations on texting, dating apps, first dates and asking her out. What to say, when to say it, and what to stop doing.

2 field notes

September 2026

  • How to Keep a Dating App Conversation Going

    Most matches don't die on a bad opener. They die two messages later. Here's how to keep it moving toward a real date.

    · 4 min read · Texting, Dating apps, Asking out

  • Hinge Openers That Get Replies

    Hinge openers that actually get replies react to one specific detail and end with something easy to answer. Examples included.

    · 5 min read · Openers, Texting